How many weddings have you done? Have you done many that were similar to mine in size and style?
I've taken stills or video for around 40+ weddings as of last writing. I lean towards candid or photojournalism with a good hint of classical. Blown out backlights are all the rage these days (just look at any photographer's website for the couple walking through the field with the sun streaming behind them on an engagement photography shoot). It's not that I don't like that style it's that my photography gut tells me that's going to look very passé in years to come. I want your photos to look timeless. Classic. But sure, I'm not a pedant, I like a FEW blown out shots like the rest of 'em.